Archives for July 2022

Byron is July 21st Pet of the Week!

The name Byron may give you images of romantic poetry and doomed poets, but ah, no—not our Byron! He’s just a down-home guy—in fact, volunteer Dee said that his name means “barn for cows”! Cows? Nope—Byron doesn’t wrangle cows—he much prefers his stuffy toys, as you can see. He’s handsome and funny, and he wants to live a happy-dude life with a forever person! Shelter hours are Wednesday through Sunday from 11 a.m. to 3 p.m. at 7700 E. Spring St. at the entrance to El Dorado Park (no parking fee for shelter visitors). You can email PetAdopt@longbeach.gov to speed the process for adopting Byron. Ask for ID#A669543.

(This rescue encouraged by the usual suspects.)

Top Tips For Dealing With Troubled Teens

The teenage years of your child’s life can be challenging for both of you. When teenagers are stressed, they can lash out, and often in your direction. Here are some tips and strategies that can help you deal with a troubled teen and help them communicate positively with you.

Keep Calm And Carry On

Teenagers like to push your buttons, and they can be pretty good at it too. It can be hard for a young teen, and even an older one, to control their emotions so you need to set the example.

Do not react to their button-pushing tantrums and remain calm. There are some strategies that can help you to begin communicating with teenagers effectively no matter how hard they make it. Keep your cool and resist their provocations.

Establish And Reinforce Boundaries

You can call these house rules, mom rules, or ground rules, but these are boundaries you must set for both you and your child so you both know where you stand. The most important rule is that you both treat each other with respect.

This can help cut down on the number of heated confrontations you are having with each other and give your teenager a structure they can work within to communicate with you clearly and calmly.

Use Humor And Empathy

Sharing is caring. It may not be too long ago that you were the same age as your teenager, possibly going through the same problems and stresses that they are now.

This creates an opportunity for empathy and sharing your experiences with them which makes you more relatable to them. They only know you as an adult and may not have ever thought about your teenage life or considered that you could have experienced situations that are similar to theirs.

Life is funny, and you can be too. Sharing a laugh at life can be a great bonding experience, and makes your teen much more likely to open up and share their emotions and worries with you.

Help Them Find To Solutions On Their Own

When your child is in distress it is only natural to want to protect them and take control of the situation. This is the wrong path to take with a teenager that will become a young adult before you know it.

Part of communicating is listening, and most teenagers feel that they are not listened to. Make sure you are giving them time and space in your conversations to find the words they need and listen to them. Help them to work things out themselves, and offer support not control.

Navigate The Path Forward With Them

Continued support reassures a child, no matter how old they become. It is important to follow up your conversations with actions. Give them the support and encouragement they will need to deal with their problems and move forward in their lives, progressing instead of regressing.

Make sure they see the different options they have at any given moment. Empower them by giving them the authority and responsibility to make decisions on their own with your help, advice, and support.

These strategies should help you make more progress with a troubled teen. With the right balance of help and advice with boundaries and respect, you should see a positive change in their behavior.

These are a must this Summer!

These may not be considered beauty items but they all are definitely products to have on hand this Summer!

 Bug Soother, is a natural, kid-and-pet-friendly line of insect repellent products that ACTUALLY work. Without the constant nagging of bugs, you and your pet won’t have to miss out on all the outdoor fun! I had the opportunity to try out the Bug Soother Spray and was impressed with how well it works! I also like that it is a DEET-Free, natural bug repellent. It can also be used on pets and it smells pretty good too! I didn’t try them but they also have Candles, which sound pretty cool! I think the candle would be perfect for outside in the patio or to have for camping trips! You can find both here.

These relief rubs from Mad Ritual really are a must-try! I like that they are made with natural ingredients and are even pet-friendly! The CBD Relief Rub is cooling, warming, and entirely is soothing, this easy-to-apply rub can be used anywhere you’re feeling sore or tight and can help with discomforts like headaches, cramps, joint pain, and more! I mean seriously, how cool is that? The Lavender + Frankincense blend is my favorite! You can also find bath bombs on the website. Find out more at https://madritual.com/

PURELL® Brand has New Foam Hand Sanitizers

Hand Sanitizers are a must! I don’t leave home without them so I was actually very happy to try this next product! Introducing PURELL® Advanced Hand Sanitizer Naturals Foam and PURELL® Advanced Hand Sanitizer 2in1 Moisturizing Foam! My favorite is the PURELL® Advanced Hand Sanitizer Naturals Foam. I like that is made with plant based alcohol and does not dry out my hands when I use it. I love that it also had a nice fragrance to it. The foam actually feels good on my hands so I definitely will be buying this one!

 This product has a USDA Certified Biobased Formulation made with naturally renewable ethanol and is available in recyclable 10 oz pump bottles at WalmartTarget, and CVS. Gel versions of their Naturals formula are also available. The rich foam of both products clings to hands for mess-free sanitizing and dries quickly. Both are naturally fragranced with a blend of essential oils – which are all clearly listed on the label. Neither product contains harsh preservatives, dyes, triclosan, parabens, or phthalates.

PURELL® products, including hand sanitizer, soap, surface spray, and wipes, are available online and at stores nationwide in a variety of sizes and formulas. PURELL® Hand Sanitizer remains America’s #1 hand sanitizer. For more details, visit PURELL.com

Self Disclosure: I received free samples of the above products to facilitate this seasonal post. Images were also provided.

Saving Money When Travelling Post-Pandemic: Our Tips for Parents

If you are counting down the days until your first post-pandemic holiday with your loved ones, it may be worth taking the time to familiarise yourself with a number of tips and tricks to prevent you from getting caught up in the excitement of it all and overspending your budget. If this sounds like a predicament you may be in, continue reading to find out how to save money when travelling post-pandemic as a parent.

Establish a budget ahead of time

In order to save money when travelling for the first time in months, or even years, you must establish a budget ahead of time. This is especially important if you have little knowledge or experience with budgeting or have inadvertently eaten into a large chunk of your savings during previous holidays with your loved ones. It may be the holiday of a lifetime, but it is unlikely to leave you with positive memories if you have little money for essentials when you land back in your home country. In order to do so, determine how much everyday items are likely to cost ahead of time and factor in any additional extras to gain a better understanding of how much money will be a good fit for you and your family. To ensure you hit this figure, avoid purchasing nonessential items and open a savings fund in the months leading up to your trip.

Organise travel insurance before you go

If you are looking to save money when travelling post-pandemic, it may benefit you, and your loved ones, to organise travel insurance before you go. It may seem like an unnecessary payment at the time, but it can end up saving you a considerable amount of time and money in the long run and provide you with peace of mind in the event of an accident or emergency that affects your family abroad. In order to do so, you must determine how much cover is sufficient and begin the process of organising travel insurance from Staysure, or another top-rated provider, in the months leading up to your trip. This should be one of the first steps involved in the process of planning a holiday and must never be dismissed as another unnecessary cost.

Book as early as possible

In today’s post-pandemic landscape, millions of consumers will be scrambling to organise a holiday with their loved ones at the last minute. By booking as early as possible, however, you can beat the crowds to secure the best deals and save a significant amount of money in the process. This is also the case for booking any excursions, day trips, or additional extras during your holiday with time of the essence if you are looking to save money and avoid disappointing your kids if they have had their eye on a particular outing or tourist destination. It is also worth remembering that the travel industry is still gradually recovering from a turbulent year and may, therefore, double their prices for couples looking for a quick getaway or families booking week-long holidays at the last available minute in order to recuperate lost funds.

If you are planning a holiday with your loved ones in the near future or when the travel industry has returned to some sense of normalcy, there are several tips and tricks you must take to streamline the entire process from start to finish and save money at the same time. This includes establishing a budget ahead of time, organising travel insurance before you go, and booking as early as possible.

  Laguna Art Museum Paints the Town “Fun” for All Ages This Summer

Images courtesy of Laguna Art Museum

Laguna Art Museum (LAM), the premiere museum of California art, is bringing art to life with a full schedule of programming for all ages. From hands-on workshops to discussions and programs for children, the museum makes art easily accessible for art lovers.

Get in touch with your artistic side during LAM’s Artist Workshop series, where participants create their very own work of art while receiving instruction from expert artists. Each Artist Workshop event focuses on a specific medium such as figure drawing, collage, and more. Join the museum for Artist Workshop: Collage–An Artistic Composition Made of Diverse & Unexpected Materials on July 17 and Artist Workshop: Comic Book Art on July 30.

Every month, join Laguna Art Museum Curatorial Fellows Jean Stern and Rochelle Steiner for in-depth discussions and artist talks that educate participants on a variety of art-related topics. Stern’s programming will pull from his expertise on the California art movement, examining the achievements of pioneering artists through a series of lectures. Steiner’s programming will feature in-depth and approachable discussions with living artists who have exhibitions on display at the museum or whose artwork relates to LAM’s permanent collection.

Kids can explore their creative side with the museum’s kid-friendly programming such as Storytime Saturday, a monthly program designed for making and moving. On the fourth Saturday of every month, families enjoy read-alouds supplemented with mindfulness exercises, art-making projects, or in-gallery activities that promote meaningful connections. Join the museum on July 23 for Storytime Saturday at LAM: A Fox Found a Box and on August 27 for Storytime Saturday at LAM: Mole in a Black and White Hole.

Parents can take a break and let their kids take over the museum during Outside the Lines Summer Day Camps and Kids’ Night Out events. Outside the Lines Summer Day Camps will offer four sessions during July and August for ages 6-9 and 10-12. These single-day summer camps transform the museum into a space specifically for kids to enjoy a day of making, exploration, and play that isn’t usually offered at the museum. Parents can enjoy a night out during Kids’ Night Out on August 19 and 26, when kids take over the museum for a special, fun-filled night of art-making and learning about the museum’s permanent collection. The Laguna Art Museum education team will provide young learners with dinner, art-related activities, and opportunities to explore exhibitions.

Merging visual art with musical performance, LAM will present two collaborative events in August including Space for Art: The Soprano Voice on August 6 and Live! At the Museum: Andrew Harrison & Jason Lo on August 11. In collaboration with local nonprofit Thirty Three Forty, LAM will present an intimate recital unlike any other. Surrounded by art, soprano Deanna Breiwick, and pianist Cheryl Lin Fielding, will fill the museum’s space with sound for an unforgettable performance. Each month, LAM and Laguna Beach Live! partner to present Live! at the Museum, a program that brings diverse musical experiences to the museum’s galleries for an evening celebrating music, art and community.

To learn more about upcoming programs and events at Laguna Art Museum, visit lagunaartmuseum.org/events.  

For more information about Laguna Art Museum visit lagunaartmuseum.org. To stay connected and learn about upcoming events, follow the museum on Facebook, Instagram, and Twitter.

Credit: Laguna Art Museum.

You Don’t Want to Miss Musical Theatre West’s Sizzlin’ Summer Production of “Grease”

Photo provided to facilitate this post. Credit: Musical Theatre West.

I had the opportunity to put on my Pink Lady Jacket and go check out the opening night of the Musical Theatre West’s musical production of “Grease” and was blown away! It was an incredible performance! The show runs on select dates, July 8 – July 24, 2022, at the Carpenter Performing Arts Center on the campus of Cal State Long Beach. Tickets for the rockin’ return of Grease to the Musical Theatre West stage range from $20 – $96 each and are available now, by phone at 562-856-1999 or online at musical.org.

The show may not be exactly as you imagine but the message is clear through the performance that it’s wonderful to be who you are and that you don’t have to be anyone else. I know, I know….it still does follow the basic traditional Grease movie and has all the great sing-a-long songs but this one also has a wonderful message with wonderful talented performers. There’s still time to see it this month and I highly recommend it!

Photo: Denise (me) and BFF Gaby.

Minions: The Rise of Gru * Even The Best Supervillain Needs Help Every Now And Then

In the heart of the 1970s, amid a flurry of feathered hair and flared jeans, Gru is growing up in the suburbs. A fan boy of a supervillain supergroup known as the Vicious 6, Gru hatches a plan to become evil enough to join them. Luckily, he gets some mayhem-making backup from his loyal followers, the Minions. Together, Kevin, Stuart, Bob and Otto–a new Minion sporting braces and a desperate need to please–deploy their skills as they and Gru build their first lair, experiment with their first weapons and pull off their first missions. When the Vicious 6 oust their leader, legendary fighter Wild Knuckles Alan Arkin, Gru interviews to become their newest member. It doesn’t go well (to say the least), and only gets worse after Gru outsmarts them and suddenly finds himself the mortal enemy of the apex of evil. On the run, Gru will turn to an unlikely source for guidance, Wild Knuckles himself, and discover that even bad guys need a little help from their friends.

KIDS FIRST! Film Critic Maica N. comments, “In his world, Gru is the most powerful villain anyone has ever seen. But the question is: how did he become this dominant force? This film shows us the exciting story of 12-year old Gru and the path to his villainous life.” Ava C. adds, “The main message of this movie is that no matter how independent you think you are, everyone can use some help. Even the best supervillain needs help every now and then. We see this message portrayed throughout the entire film.” Miguel wraps it up with, “In this film we see who Gru’s idols are and who he looks up to when becoming a villain. I definitely could not stop laughing while watching this film and I bet you won’t be able to stop, too!” See their full reviews below.

Minions: The Rise of Gru

Maica N., KIDS FIRST! Film Critics, Age 14

In his world, Gru is the most powerful villain anyone has ever seen. But the question is: how did he become this dominant force? Minions: The Rise of Gru shows us the exciting story of 12-year old Gru and the path to his villainous life. Both the familiar faces and the new characters come together to make this make this film highly entertaining, yet nostalgic.

Minions: The Rise of Gru provides the backstory for how Gru (Steve Carell) came to be the notorious villain he is today. After being rejected as a replacement for Wild Knuckles (Alan Arkin) and failing to earn a much-coveted spot in the supervillain group Vicious 6, Gru unexpectedly finds himself on the run. As fate would have it, Gru’s dream of being mentored by Wild Knuckles soon comes true, but not without Gru having to now lean on Wild Knuckles and his minions to fight back against the Vicious 6.

The three main minions—Kevin, Stuart, and Bob—each have unique character traits that make these films work. In Minions: The Rise of Gru, you can see how each minion plays a different role in how Gru grows as a villain and as a person. Kevin is the smart and responsible leader—he makes sure everything is going according to plan. Stuart is the one who is always in touch with reality, and makes sure the truth is known—he may seem uninterested, but he’s very helpful. Bob is the lighthearted and innocent soul who always tries to make the best out of a situation. Without all three of these characters, this movie wouldn’t be the same. There are many subtle references to the previous movies that add to the comedic tone, as well. For instance, in the scene where Gru and Wild Knuckles attempt to rob the bank, the bank president shows them an image of his grandson, who turns out to be none other than the aspiring villain, Vector. Of course, young Gru isn’t aware that Vector will play a big role in his future, but the audience definitely is. These subtle references are what contribute to the nostalgic feel we get from watching this film. And, of course, we can’t forget about Gru’s iconic wardrobe, which he’s already wearing as a young kid.

The message of Minions: The Rise of Gru is that everyone needs a little help sometimes. Even though he doesn’t realize it right away, Gru eventually recognizes that he needs help in order to be the successful villain he desires to be. 

Minions: The Rise of Gru is such a fun movie to watch. The lovable characters just make the audience continue to yearn for more. I give it 5 out of 5 stars and recommend it for ages 5 to 12, though anyone can enjoy this movie. Minions: The Rise of Gru releases in theaters on July 1, 2022. Make sure you check it out!

Minions: The Rise of Gru

By Ava C., KIDS FIRST! Film Critic, age 13

Minions: The Rise of Gru is exemplary, in that it contains all the wow factors I look for in a movie.  It is funny and intriguing. The animation is amazing.

Minions: The Rise of Gru takes place in the 1970s when Gru (Steve Carell) was a child. The storyline follows his journey of trying to become the most dangerous supervillain. To make his dream come true, he tries to join a group of villains called the Vicious 6. His audition quickly goes downhill and suddenly Gru and his minions are on the run from the Vicious 6 villains.

They’ve come a long way since the original 2015 Minions movie. Gru’s life story is told throughout the Minions and Despicable Me series, however, this addition to the storyline adds more details and fills the gaps of Gru’s life that was missing. Just like the prior films, the minions are so hilarious and never lack for personality. A good thing about the Minions and Despicable Me films is that they are consistent with the character’s personalities. There is the right amount of character development that brings all the characters to life, which gives it a realistic feel. The minion’s language is interesting because it is mostly gibberish, called “minionese,” mixed with a few recognizable Spanish words. Although most times you cannot understand them verbally, you can figure out what they are trying to communicate by their tone and facial expressions. They are just so cute! The minions wear their classic denim overalls, but some wear other outfits that fit their personalities. My favorite part of the movie is seeing the perseverance by the characters. It sends a positive message about not giving up and continuing to reach for your dreams, even when it gets tough.

The main message of this movie is that no matter how independent you think you are, everyone can use some help. Even the best supervillain needs help every now and then. We see this message portrayed throughout the entire film.

I give Minions: The Rise of 5 out of 5 stars and recommend it movie for ages 5 to 18, plus adults. It is a very funny and adventurous film that kids and adults will enjoy. It opens in theaters July 1, 2022.

Minions: The Rise Of Gru 

By Miguel C., KIDS FIRST! Film Critic, age 12 1:42 to

The writers of the exciting film Minions: The Rise Of Gru, Matthew Fogel, Brian Lynch, and Matthew Fogel, definitely created a strong storyline. In this film we see who Gru’s idols are and who he looks up to when becoming a villain. I definitely could not stop laughing while watching this film and I bet you won’t be able to stop, too!

The film starts off with an object, which looks like an amulet, being stolen, and we meet the Vicious 6 (Gru’s idols.) They betray their master and kick him off the team. So now Gru has an interview to work alongside the people he looks up to and become a Vicious 6 villain. If you want to see if he joins the team you’re definitely not going to want to miss this film. We also see what things are like at home, school, with his mom and the overall backstory.

This film is definitely a fan favorite and with Steve Carell playing the voice of Gru it will be a crowd-pleaser. There are so many jokes and the things the minions do and say will make you laugh so hard. For example, the way they speak and, especially in this film, the mix of Spanish with “minionese.” Like every previous Minion film, it has such a spark, the kind that truly entertains you and makes you laugh. What is unique in this film is the creation of a storyline that reveals Gru’s childhood. We learn how rough it was for Gru at school and how his relationship with his mom caused him to become the person is in the future. The animation in this film is similar to the previous films, but way better.

The message of this film is to never leave a friend or someone you care about behind because one day they might save your life. There are a lot of action scenes, including ones where they fight and one where they use needles.  So, I would warn parents that this may not be suitable for younger kids.  

I give Minions: The Rise Of Gru 4 out of 5 stars and recommend it for ages 5 to 12. You can find it in theaters July 1, 2022. 

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Accepted * Unique And Intriguing Look At College Admissions In The USA And The Extent To Which People Will Go To Achieve Their Dream

Accepted offers a unique and intriguing look at the world of Ivy League college admissions and the true cost of getting that first foothold into elite American society. In his first documentary feature, director Dan Chen grounds a broader look at the inequities in the American education system with unbelievable access to T.M. Landry and the deeply personal stories of four dynamic students looking to overcome countless obstacles to achieve their dreams. Four high school seniors in rural Louisiana attend T.M. Landry, an unconventional K – 12 school housed in a sparse warehouse made famous for sending its graduates to elite universities like Harvard, Yale, and Stanford. The students aim to meet the intense expectations of Mike Landry, the imposing founder of the school who charts a relentless course towards their college dreams. When the New York Times publishes an expose on Landry’s controversial methods, the school buckles under the scrutiny. Each senior is left to contend with uncomfortable truths about their school and the college admissions system, and decide for themselves what they are willing to do to be accepted.

KIDS FIRST! Film Critic Eshaan M. comments, “Accepted offers a unique and intriguing look at the world of selective college admissions in the US; it shows the cost of climbing the social ladder through education and the extent to which people will go to get to the ranks of the country’s intelligentsia.” See his full review and interview with the director below.

Accepted

By Eshaan M., KIDS FIRST! Film Critic, age 16

Accepted offers a unique and intriguing look at the world of selective college admissions in the US; it shows the cost of climbing the social ladder through education and the extent to which people will go to get to the ranks of the country’s intelligentsia.

T.M. Landry College Preparatory is an unconventional K-12 school in a poor rural town in Louisiana famous for sending its students to elite universities like Harvard, Yale, Wellesley and Stanford. Students aim to meet the intense expectations of Mike Landry, the imposing, relentless, rousing-speech-giving founder of the school who has a personal and professional stake in the process. When the New York Times publishes an exposé on T.M. Landry falsifying student transcripts and its controversial and, at-times, abusive methods, the school crumbles. Each senior has to figure out school and the college admissions system on their own from there, and they have to decide for themselves what they are willing to do to get into college.

In his first documentary, director Dan Chen beautifully captures the personal stories of four dynamic students looking to overcome the seemingly insuperable obstacles they face to achieve their dreams. One, for example, has a widowed mother and two disabled sisters, and she must care for them while balancing an 11-hour school day at T.M. Landry. The interviews of the four seniors guide the film, as does interwoven footage of Landry working with students, hyping them up, and continuing his work at home. The film is incredibly well-constructed — holes in T.M. Landry’s story are reflected in the plot (such as when it is revealed that Mike Landry told one of his students to call him when the filming team came to his house so he could project the image of a caring, fatherly figure). The footage is stable; lighting is modulated to reflect the mood of each scene (dark in times of despair, bright in times of hope), and the storytelling is seamless. Accepted keeps your attention throughout; there’s not a single dull moment. As a student going through the admissions process right now (albeit with a very different background and very different schools than those in the film), Accepted resonates with me on an emotional level at various points. It’s one of the best traditional documentaries I’ve watched this year.

Accepted is a film all about finding success with honesty and hard work. Where T.M. Landry fails, as a student says, is that they set out to solve the problem of a ridiculously selective university system, but became a part of the problem by falsifying records and losing integrity.

I give Accepted 5 stars out of 5 and recommend if for ages 13 to 18, plus adults. Accepted releases July 1, 2022 in theaters and on demand.