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When it comes to getting a divorce, you might have visions of it being incredibly expensive. And, yes, you are right. Traditionally, divorce was extremely expensive. But living in this day and age means that you have options. Getting a divorce doesn’t have to be costly. Getting a divorce is emotionally difficult, the last thing you need is financial burdens, draining your pockets.

Here are 6 ways to get a cheap divorce.

1. File for an uncontested divorce

If you can, aim for an uncontested divorce. An uncontested divorce means that you and your spouse agree to all the terms and conditions of the divorce. For example, you agree on how to split your assets and debts. If you have an uncontested divorce, you can also get a divorce without an attorney. Having an uncontested divorce is usually faster and cheaper than a contested divorce. You can go to this link to learn more about uncontested divorce.

A contested divorce usually requires a trial before a judge which is extremely costly. If you have a contested divorce, you will probably also need to hire a lawyer. Lawyers charge per hour, which can be extremely expensive. Therefore, if you can, keep things during your divorce amicable, so that you do not have to go to trial. If you don’t have children, your divorce procedure will be straightforward. You can also apply for a simplified divorce as well. You will need to meet a few requirements though to qualify for a simplified divorce. For example:

• You will have to have no minor children under the age of 18.
• Both spouses must want a divorce.
• Neither spouse wants alimony
• You and your spouse do not any property together
• Neither spouse should be going through bankruptcy.

If you meet the following criteria you can obtain a simplified divorce, which will really save you money. The average cost of an uncontested divorce is about $300. Which is a massive difference in comparison to the average contested divorce which is about $15 000 per person. Another reason why an uncontested divorce will help you save money because you won’t need a lawyer to help you fill out any paperwork. You can even get your divorce papers online. Follow this website to learn more about quick and cheap divorce.

2.  Make a list of all your questions and keep communication with your lawyer low.

If you feel that your divorce might be a bit more complicated than you expected, and you might need a lawyer, make sure to make a list of everything that you want to ask them. If you do this, it will limit the amount of time that you will need with your lawyer. Therefore, saving you time, which in turn will save you money. You could also hire a lawyer only for certain parts of your case and not for the entire procedure. This is called “unbundled” legal services. Ask your lawyer if they will consider this. Try only contact your lawyer if there is a really serious problem. Some lawyers even charge for emails that are sent, or for call-out fees.

3. Compare prices

When it comes to getting a cheap divorce, you should also compare lawyer fees. You don’t have to go with the most expensive lawyer. If they are expensive, it doesn’t necessarily mean that they are the best. You can interview multiple lawyers. Ask what their costs are and make sure that there are no hidden costs. You could also ask a younger lawyer to help you. They might charge less. Even though they are less experienced, they will be obligated to ask a more experienced lawyer for help, if there is anything that they do not understand. Another option is to ask people you know of any affordable divorce lawyers in the area.

Go here to know more about prices for divorce costs.

4. Consider mediation

Mediation is a great way to save money during a divorce. Rather than going to trial, seek mediation. Mediation can be at most $2,000 a day, and most mediations, last no more than two days. Whereas going to trial can be much more expensive. So if you would like to get a cheap divorce, opt for mediation rather than going to trial.

5. Have a DIY divorce.

Another option is to do everything yourself. This will definitely make sure that your divorce will be cheap. When it comes to a DIY divorce, these are the steps that you will need to follow:

• Find the court that will have jurisdiction over your case. You will have to prepare the divorce proceedings in the family court in the area where you and your spouse live. You and your spouse should have lived in your state for at least 6 months before you can file for a divorce.
• Prepare your petition for divorce and pay the appropriate fees. You can get your divorce papers online, or at your local clerk’s office. Hand in or mail your documentation.
• You have to let your spouse know that you will be filing for a divorce. You can do this by hiring a process server to hand-deliver the divorce decree to your spouse. They will need to sign the documentation.
• Agree on the terms of the divorce with your spouse.
• Prepare the final decree of divorce.
• Schedule a final hearing to complete the divorce process. You can contact the clerk’s office to set up a date for your final hearing.

Therefore, it is possible to file for divorce on your own, but it can be complicated if you are unsure of what to do.

6. Get an online divorce

The cheapest and fastest way to get a divorce is to get an online divorce. There are many online divorce companies that offer amazing service throughout the entire divorce process. They can send you divorce papers within 24 hours and file your papers for you. They also have online support teams, who will be happy to answer any questions that you might have. An online divorce costs, on average, between $300 and $500. How’s that for savings? When it comes to choosing an online divorce company, go with a reputable company that has great reviews.

In Conclusion

There are many ways to save money and get a cheap divorce. If you follow these 6 steps, you can be sure that going through a divorce will not break the bank. Rather use the money that you save for a much needed holiday.

Convertible dresses are perfect for bridal parties that celebrate different shapes and sizes. This compromise between form and function allows brides to get the cohesive look they desire without forcing any bridesmaids to wear a style in which they’re uncomfortable.

With so many options to choose from, it can be hard to decide which style to wear. Here are a few fan-favorite ways to rock a convertible dress.

One Shoulder

According to the fashion experts at Azazie, one-shoulder dresses have made a comeback in the wedding industry in recent years. This elegant look is reminiscent of a Greek Goddess and provides some support while still looking fun and sexy. 

To invoke your inner Aphrodite, place both straps over your right shoulder. Adjust the fabric to ensure you get the frontal coverage you desire. Twist the straps together, pulling them toward the left side of your body. Once you reach your waistline, pull the ends of the straps around the respective sides of your body. Tie in the front and, you’re done!

For a fun twist on this look that adds an element of sophistication, try the one-shoulder knot. Start by putting your straps over one shoulder as before. Then, instead of twisting, tie the straps in a knot. If you’ve chosen your right shoulder, bring the right strap under your arm to the front and the left strap across your back and pull to the front. Cross under the bust line and have one of your fellow bridesmaids tie in the back.

Strapless

For bridesmaids who favor the strapless look, this convertible dress style is one of the easiest to wear. Start with both straps over the respective shoulders. Then, place the left strap over the right side of your chest and pull through the back. 

Repeat on the opposite side using the other strap. Cross the straps at the back, around the front, and to the back again to secure. It’s that easy.

Simple Straps

For a sultry, backless look that still provides support, create simple straps with your convertible dress. Place each strap over the corresponding shoulder and twist individually. 

Continue to twist each strap until the twisted portion reaches your shoulder blade. From there, wrap each strap under the corresponding arm and cross under the bustline for added support. Tie the straps on your lower back, using a pin to secure if needed.

Sleeves

Some women feel more comfortable with their shoulders covered. To do this with a convertible dress, place the straps over the corresponding shoulders. Make sure they are flat and wide for maximum coverage. Cross the straps in the back and bring them through to the front. Cross again at the front and secure at the back for simple-yet-elegant shoulder coverage.

You can adjust this look for cap sleeves by adding a simple twist in each strap at the armpit. Instead of a simple cross at the back, overlap the straps and pull back toward the original side to loop the straps through one another and add support. 

If you’re wearing a convertible dress, try a few styles to see what works for you. The style you choose might surprise you. Practice the style a few times so that you’re ready to go on the big day.

Step back in time to 1919 and experience the Catalina Island Museum like never before during the Wrigley Centennial: An Island Jubilee on Saturday, September 21, 2019, beginning at 4 p.m. The Catalina Island Museum and Honorary Chairs Alison Wrigley-Rusack and Geoffrey Claflin Rusack invite you to a festive evening of entertainment, cocktails, hors d’oeuvres, live and silent auctions, celebrating the 100-year anniversary of William Wrigley Jr.’s purchase of the Santa Catalina Island Company. The event is also a fundraiser for the museum allowing it to continue to provide world-class exhibitions and educational programs to the island and its visitors.
Master of Ceremonies and Celebrity Auctioneer Matt Rogers will lead the live auction of one-of-a-kind items including an original hand signed letter by William Wrigley Jr., a beautiful plein air painting of “Mrs. Wrigley’s Garden” by the late Brian Stewart along with an exceptional Pasadena tour package, plus unique experiences, exciting performances and exclusive vacations including a getaway to Napa via private jet with a hot air balloon ride, dinner and more.
Enjoy cocktails from a full hosted bar accompanied by 1919 inspired heavy hors d’oeuvres at the museum, directly inspired by an all-Catalina sourced dinner enjoyed by Mr. and Mrs. Wrigley during their first visit to the island. Continue the evening with lively entertainment including music by Impromptu, led by the musical stylings of acclaimed composer and pianist Michael Mortilla, featuring violinist Nicole Garcia, bassist Marquis Howell III and Alex Burke on the vibraphone. Witness thrilling knife throwing by the incomparable Jack Dagger, death-defying sword swallowing by the unkillable Jenny Lynne, the golden throated Janet Klein singing songs inspired by Catalina and the magic of Ron Lynch during a 1920s style Vaudeville show.
In addition to honoring the William Wrigley Jr. family, the museum’s celebration will also acknowledge other key families that have made an impact on the island’s development and success. Descendants of D.M. Renton, Otis Shepard, John Gabriel Beckman, the Banning brothers, David Blankenhorn, George Shatto, Zane Grey and others have been invited.  Throughout the evening, all guests will have the opportunity to share their favorite Catalina memory and/or connection to the island in a video booth provided by Bill Banning and Alison Armstrong of Story Bank Productions.
Prior to the Jubilee celebration, all are welcome to enjoy free admission to the Catalina Island Museum from 10 a.m. – 1 p.m. as part of Smithsonian Magazine’s 14th Annual Museum Day. Experience the world-class art and exhibitions already on display at the museum including Wrigley’s Catalina commemorating William Wrigley Jr. and his contributions to the Island, The History of Catalina Island exploring an island rich in events and personalities, MacArthur “Genius” Fellowship Awardee Elizabeth Turk’s Tipping Point exhibition highlighting and exploring extinction, and Esther Williams: The Swimming Queen of the Silver Screen chronicling Williams’ dazzling life from athlete swimmer to movie stardom. 
Tickets to Wrigley Centennial: An Island Jubilee are currently on-sale at $225 a person. To purchase tickets and for more information on pricing, events, and current exhibitions, visit catalinamuseum.org.
Free admission to the museum is available by visiting smithsonianmag.com/museumday/venues/museum/catalina-island-museum/ and selecting “Get A Ticket.” Each Museum Day ticket provides free admission for two people on Saturday, September 21, 2019. Guests do not need to be attending the Jubilee to enjoy free admission.

Credit: Catalina Island Museum.

You love San Diego Restaurant Week for the chance to try new flavors and visit old favorites, all while enjoying unbeatable deals from top eateries throughout the county. This edible extravaganza has become a highly anticipated tradition in the community because it isn’t just about delicious food and drinks, it’s about creating satisfying moments for you to remember beyond the dinner plate. And what’s more satisfying than having things go YOUR WAY? This September, SDRW invites you to create your own flavor on Restaurant Week! Now you can enjoy more adventure at every restaurant during the tastiest week of the year with custom deals crafted by each participating restaurant. Enjoy the same price points you’ve come to love, but with unique offerings every place you go!
That means you can:

• Taste more of San Diego with new fast causal restaurants, cafes and bakeries now participating.  
• Save more with new deals that include drinks, appetizers and more pairings, in addition to the classic 3-course menu offerings.
• Enjoy more opportunities to take advantage of the week from brunches to lunches and fancy dinners to quick winners.

Indulge in the same delicious deals with more adventure as San Diego Restaurant Week returns from Sunday, September 22nd through Sunday, September 29th, with over 180 participating restaurants throughout San Diego County offering exclusive Make-It-Your-Way menus with three-course prix-fixe dinner prices at $20, $30, $40, $50 or $60 per person and/or two-course prix-fixe lunch prices at $10, $15, $20 or $25 per person. It’s Your Week to Remember—make it your way!
To search participating restaurants, preview menus, and for more information visit SanDiegoRestaurantWeek.com or call 619.233.5008.

Credit: McFarlane Promotions, Inc.